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[superborb]

I was looking at the taiwanese terms for gay/lesbian family members that was making the rounds, and was thinking about how heterogeneous family terms are in China (and obviously the diaspora). More than anything else, I feel like family terms preserve regional differences in topolect. (Especially confusing when the same term means different relatives in different topolects.) I know that for 3 of my 4 grandparents, I use varying degrees of topolect terms instead of standard Mandarin, even though I am generally unable to speak those topolects.

Anyway, how this translates into fic is beyond my abilities, I just wanted to ramble a bit about how fluid the relative terms are compared to how they're often presented. Like, no, I don't have a 外婆wai4po2, I have an a2bu3.

Actually, I think maternal grandmother is one with the most variance across China, with also 姥姥 lao3lao, 阿嬷 a1mo2, 婆婆 po2po, 细爹 xi4die1, 家家 jia1jia1. There was a big kerfluffle a few years ago where some textbooks in Shanghai used laolao instead, and like (I say this with love), Shanghainese people got Very Upset at this northern nonsense. (Waipo is apparently more southern.)

Comments

[superborb]

Ooh, yes, I was thinking that English had similar things for grandparents/parents! But I don't have a great grasp how regional it is (vs specific family dependent)

[lirazel]

There's not a huge variety of regional variation within the US, but the fact that I call my parents "mama and daddy" is definitely southern. Other variations in the US are about either specific families OR about whatever your ethnic background is.

[superborb]

Yeah, that makes sense! I do think bc the US's history is so recent and there's (relatively) a lot of internal migration, we have a lot fewer entrenched regional differences than other countries

[lirazel]

Definitely. And when we push the English language stuff out, the US is an outlier for not saying "mum" but saying "mom" instead!