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[superborb]

I was looking at the taiwanese terms for gay/lesbian family members that was making the rounds, and was thinking about how heterogeneous family terms are in China (and obviously the diaspora). More than anything else, I feel like family terms preserve regional differences in topolect. (Especially confusing when the same term means different relatives in different topolects.) I know that for 3 of my 4 grandparents, I use varying degrees of topolect terms instead of standard Mandarin, even though I am generally unable to speak those topolects.

Anyway, how this translates into fic is beyond my abilities, I just wanted to ramble a bit about how fluid the relative terms are compared to how they're often presented. Like, no, I don't have a 外婆wai4po2, I have an a2bu3.

Actually, I think maternal grandmother is one with the most variance across China, with also 姥姥 lao3lao, 阿嬷 a1mo2, 婆婆 po2po, 细爹 xi4die1, 家家 jia1jia1. There was a big kerfluffle a few years ago where some textbooks in Shanghai used laolao instead, and like (I say this with love), Shanghainese people got Very Upset at this northern nonsense. (Waipo is apparently more southern.)

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[stevie]

it's very obvious that I am southern because of what I call my grandparents/great grandparents and the different levels to it all.

One of the funniest stories in my family is how my Memaw wanted to be called 'Grandmother' and my dad was like, hell no, mom, take your Southern granny name and deal with it.

[lirazel]

Ha! My daddy is the opposite. He's always tolerated us calling him daddy, but he grew up in Indiana and didn't like southern names, so we call he call his parents Grandmother and Grandfather, in direct contrast to my mama's (southern) parents who we called Mona (rhymes with sauna) and Granddaddy.